Betray one

Sometimes I hear these crazy ass stories of people cheating on their spouses or partners of years and think FUCK!

In that moment fear sets in  because I've gone through shit like this in my life . It's the worst feeling in the world.

Cheating isn't Taboo, it's a fucking choice nothing that the other person has done should ever push anyone too cheating .

It's this dissatisfaction , and it's a personal thing . Why? DO men or women cheat?

How selfish can one be too carry an affair and still come home and be like nothing .  This is soul drenching . And for the women , and men that have experience this  I feel your pain .

I've always said it walk away than hurt someone who you " supposedly love". News flash love is never pain , love should never cause hurt.

Love is a lot of things minus those .

In my honest opinion , relationships aren't meant to be perfect , they are meant to experience and live with a significant other so that you can grow. It's obvious that everything has it's limits, situations  or abuse.  There is no such thing as tough love which would include a person cheating or hitting you.<-this ain't love.

No, it's not that.

It's the shadiest thing that I've experience.

In my head I think what the fuck ?? what the fuck ?? Some nerve .

This kind of shit taints a person, and fucking destroys them . Honestly , it's hard to pick up the pieces and try to make sense of things . Just because nothing is the same.

I'VE heard this insane saying that now makes so much sense after years of hearing it  " It takes a lifetime to  gain someones trust , it takes a second to loose it".

In the end there are many choices that we have too take in that moment that will impact the rest of our lives.  And if it feels right that do it , if it doesn't than don't.

Always listen too your Gut.

Peace -