Thursday, May 2, 2013

Maybe . Not really

   It's not that often that people ask me things our question who I am. And if they do, I have no problem letting them know what they are asking. I will tell you a little bit of what I am talking about. Just the other day . a lady asked if I wanted to earn some gifts by having a show at my house and that it wouldn't cost me a dime.(OK i am listening). She kept just giving me details on potential items I could win, and that great stuff. While she kept talking I kept thinking in my head " what is the catch". After she stopped , she asked me if i could gather about ten of my closest friends so they can see the product . (it's a big company called princess) .I just started laughing so hard (tad rude) but I mean no harm . She looked puzzled and asked me what was so funny.. ( a blunt answer never hurts) I said ", oh my I am sorry ,but I have no close friends like that , I maybe only have like three and that's if , and I haven't seen them in about nine years." The lady just immediately said well I am sure you can invite family , other acquaintances. I told her I am not the kind of person who looks for people when I need something, and plus I don't take having friends lightly, so therfore sorry maybe next time. While she was packing what she has showed me , she said I should try to have more friends, because life isn't the same without them. OK , well thank you. And she walked away.

Honestly, I kinda felt bad for the lady in a way and kinda for myself.( i don't do that ). Because  I have never been a person who has a million friends. I don't like it . I am more of the, I rather have  5 close friends then a bunch of phony people surrounding me. I will never understand that , but it's just the way that I am. And just maybe it's not a good thing but life is about living happy and being around people who make me laugh, who can talk about books, art, cooking, the kids,etc. things I can relate too. I like honest,loyal sincere,blunt people. I hardly have ever known many of them. But , I have hope .and i believe good friends do exist.
In the end I felt bad for the lady because shes working on commission and I couldn't get her any,but she'll find others. So good luck to you lady.

thats life .............

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